Will I ever feel confident in my new wig?

FROM FEAR, DOUBT, AND LACK OF CONFIDENCE …

TO ENJOYING YOUR NEW LOOK AND HAVING FUN!

You may wonder if you will ever leave the house in your wig and feel NORMAL AGAIN.

Being new to wigs can certainly be daunting. Especially if you are needing one for reasons that are out of your control.

I promise you, you will get used to it and most likely even wind up loving it!

The majority of the clients that come into my studio are new to wigs. They are also exploring wigs due to reasons that are not of their choosing. Usually it is medical in nature. It can be chemo, alopecia, hormone issues, male patterned baldness just to name a few. Whatever the reason, it can be very intimidating and the fear of the unknown is real. It’s natural to thinkthat you will be walking around with a huge billboard over your head that says “Yes! I’m wearing a wig!”. Trust me, this is not the reality.

You can feel so great after you find “the wig” and even be amazed at how real it looks and feels. But then you have to leave the wig studio and go into the public and that’s where it gets real.

I will always ask my clients once they decide on their new hair if they want to wear it out or have it boxed up. There is always a hesitation when asked this. In that moment it just got real and the idea of leaving with it on can feel a bit overwhelming. Some ladies do take a deep breath and say ok, no time like the present! Let’s do it! While others just feel very insecure. In this case I will encourage them to take baby steps. Wear it at home for a day and get used to the feel of it and your reflection as you pass by a mirror. It really doesn’t take much time at all for this new look to become your new normal. Then wear it out to the store or somewhere that people do not know you. Just being in public wearing it and seeing that people are not staring will give you that boost of confidence that you need. In fact you are probably going to get a compliment or two ! You can then wear it out with a friends who know your situation and will build your confidence up with their words of encouragement and compliments.

I remember the first time I did this it was to my bible study group. These were ladies who knew what I was going through so it was not a shock for them to see me wearing my wig. They were so amazed at how great my hair looked that several of them wanted to try my wig on! Since then, several of these ladies have gotten a wig of their own. Not because they need it but because they are Lo often better than your own hair! Not to mention what a time saver they are! Lickity split and you’re looking great and ready to get out the door!

If you are not an all or nothing kind of person and need to ease yourself into your new look, I encourage you to do these few steps and see how much easier it can be for you to embrace your new look and start to thrive in your wig wearing experience. It wont be long before you are building your wig closet and are picking out your hair for the day just like you decide on what shoes to wear with your outfit for the day!

Once last recommendation. Support groups for women experiencing hair loss and wearing wigs provide a safe and understanding space for sharing experiences and coping strategies. Many members find comfort in connecting with others who understand the emotional and physical challenges associated with hair loss, whether due to medical conditions or personal choice. These groups often facilitate discussions about choosing the right wigs, styling options, and maintenance tips while fostering a sense of community and empowerment. Participants can share their journeys, offer encouragement, and celebrate each other’s unique beauty, helping to alleviate feelings of isolation and build confidence in their new identities.

I hope some of these suggestions will be helpful! God Bless You,. We Are In This Together!

xoxo, Jenn